Can someone explain to me why I have boy problems when I’m not even dating them?
In short, I believe a guy has a serious crush on me. This guy is someone I knew from high school. We are acquainted with one another but we aren’t friends. I got a message from him the other night on facebook and we had a chat. He extended an invite to have dinner with him and his roommates some time in the future. Just to be sure, I wanted to be clear that this was just a friendly dinner and not a date and he kind of blew it off basically saying, “yes, of course.”
Since then he has broken up with his boyfriend and last night I got these text messages from him:
On my way home. I Have been thinking about u.
I Want to cook u dinner. And its going to be soon baby.
Then later around midnight he messages me:
I wanted to say GOOD NIGHT sweetie.
Seriously, I do not know how you can read that any other way. There have been other messages from him but let’s just get to the point: I have a boy problem. I think that no matter what I do, I’m going to come off as an asshole as I try to tell him that I am not interested.