tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8481294.post8927209310522702189..comments2024-03-28T21:55:59.030-04:00Comments on David's Tangled Thoughts: Boy ProblemsDavidhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00127042364846361909noreply@blogger.comBlogger5125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8481294.post-6149166379515930832010-12-11T13:44:31.969-05:002010-12-11T13:44:31.969-05:00Kap, I took your advice as well as stole your line...Kap, I took your advice as well as stole your line. An email is being sent shortly. This matter is now closed.<br /><br />...I hope.Davidhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00127042364846361909noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8481294.post-38141770329967228932010-12-10T11:04:42.312-05:002010-12-10T11:04:42.312-05:00I don't think you will come off as an asshole....I don't think you will come off as an asshole. You simply aren't interested.<br /><br />I think that sometimes those nicknames are overused---"baby, sweetie". Find out exactly what he means by them. I have a friend that calls me "sweetie" all the time and will occasionally text that "I was just thinking about you, what are you up to".<br /><br />Just have that conversation with him, no matter how uncomfortable it may be for you. You may just find out that he wanted a friend--and you happen to be it.johnhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16755439918003129391noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8481294.post-48483183270941927922010-12-10T01:30:16.618-05:002010-12-10T01:30:16.618-05:00agreed.agreed.Staceyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02329934688681632923noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8481294.post-86730455628396397682010-12-09T23:52:15.820-05:002010-12-09T23:52:15.820-05:00I wish there was a like button for Kapitano's ...I wish there was a like button for Kapitano's post. :)Kristelhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15542235604164637762noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8481294.post-61338401972593546362010-12-08T06:26:34.216-05:002010-12-08T06:26:34.216-05:00Sounds like he's looking for someone to transf...Sounds like he's looking for someone to transfer his affections to, and you were just in the right place at the right time.<br /><br />You've got no reason to listen to my thoughts over anyone else's so I'm just tossing them your way as suggestions.<br /><br />I think he needs to be let down gently but firmly, and that can't be done properly over the phone or the net. Accept the dinner non-date, and at the table tell him you want to be straightforward with each other and there'll be no recriminations, ask him just what his feelings or hopes are about you, and if they're romantic, tell him you're just not interested in <i>anyone</i> that way - but if he wants to talk about the breakup, you'll listen. Something like that.<br /><br />You may need to say it all several times, because it's probably something he doesn't want to hear.<br /><br />If after all that he still comes on to you, then he's got a serious psychological problem which unfortunately you can do nothing to help - except possibly by cutting off communications.Kapitanohttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14647896216499813443noreply@blogger.com